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Jesus Was Forsaken So We Can Be Accepted

“Now from the sixth hour there was darkness over all the land until the ninth hour. And about the ninth hour Jesus cried out with a loud voice, saying, ‘Eli, Eli, lema sabachthani?’ that is, ‘My God, my God, why have you forsaken me?’ And some of the bystanders, hearing it, said, ‘This man is calling Elijah.’ And one of them at once ran and took a sponge, filled it with sour wine, and put it on a reed and gave it to him to drink. But the others said, ‘Wait, let us see whether Elijah will come to save him.’”

(Matthew 27:45-49, ESV)

When Martin Luther once studied this passage, “He continued for a long time without food, and sat wide awake but as motionless as a corpse.” Finally, he cried out, “God forsaken of God! Who can understand it!”[i] Jesus’s cry of God-forsakenness—though hard to understand—offers rich comfort for those who look to Christ for acceptance.

Christ Forsaken in Darkness

During Jesus’s crucifixion, at what should have been the brightest part of the day, “The sun’s light failed” (Luke 23:45). God judges through darkness. The ninth plague against Egypt so darkened the land that the people “did not see one another, nor did anyone rise from his place for three days” (Ex. 10:21-23). It was as if Egypt’s moral shadiness became palpable as a sign of God’s displeasure against them. In the same way, through the darkness at Calvary, God announced his hatred of sin.

But Jesus was in that darkness. He described hell as “the outer darkness” (Matt. 25:30). When John saw an angel open the bottomless pit, smoke belched out and darkened the sun (Rev. 9:2). God wants us to know that “Hell came to Calvary that day, and the Savior descended into it and bore its horrors in our stead.”[ii] God turned his radiant face away from Jerusalem, where the curse-bearer hung, and darkness reigned (Luke 23:53).

From a place of eerie, disorienting blackness, from the deepest night of the soul, Christ cried out: “My God, you’ve totally abandoned me. Why would you do that?” Under incredible duress, the Son lost sight of the Father’s abiding love, the way airplane pilots have crashed simply because darkness obliterated their sense of vertical orientation. From all appearances, Jesus had become overmatched and outwitted by his opponents, rejected by his God and Father. “The Father had really withdrawn Himself from His inward consciousness,”[iii] and in the capacity of sin-bearer, Jesus was truly forsaken. He cried out in anguish.

Mockers answered him (Matt. 27:47-49). Whether out of misunderstanding or malice, the bystanders suggested that Jesus cried out for rescue, not to his God, but to Elijah. The man who claimed to be God’s beloved Son should seek help from a long-dead prophet? How pathetic. Even Jesus’s cry of dereliction added to his humiliation. Why is this happening?

Christ is not on the cross for his own sake but for those he came to save. He is for those forsaken in darkness.

Christ Became Sin for Us

Christ is the “propitiation for our sins” (1 John 2:2). At his death, as a vicarious sufferer, Jesus bore God’s hatred of sin, what unbelievers will face on judgment day and for eternity. “Heavy must have been that burden, real and literal must have been our Lord’s substitution for us” that he could call himself forsaken by God.[iv] But his forsakenness brought about a glorious exchange. He became sin so that we might become righteous (2 Cor. 5:21). Believers trust not merely in a message but in a person who truly endured our curse and cancelled its claim against us!

Christ Guarantees God Will Never Forsake Us

Sometimes we feel like Jesus did. “Why, O Lord, do you stand far away? Why do you hide yourself in times of trouble?” (Ps. 10:1) We hear no answer. To Jesus, too, God held back words to stress the atonement’s seriousness.

But God did answer Jesus. In the resurrection God said, “My Son, My Son, I have not rejected you. I’ve never been prouder of you than when you suffered on the cross. Return to your honored place at my right hand.” Jesus was “once forsaken by God that we might forever be accepted by Him.”[v] By faith our standing with God is as secure as Jesus’s union with the Father.

Christ Is Our Light in Darkness

Behind the literal darkness that plunged Calvary into uncertainty, God’s love blazed. He loved his Son who was glorifying his Father by doing his will (John 10:17). And he loved his people: “But God shows his love for us in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us” (Rom. 5:8). Christ’s death is in the past tense, but God shows his love in the present. Because of Calvary, nothing can separate us from God’s love in Christ Jesus (Rom. 8:39).

[i] Friedrich Wilhelm Krummacher. The Suffering Savior: Or, Meditations on the Last Days of Christ (United States: Gould and Lincoln, 1865), 377.

[ii] William Hendriksen, The Gospel of Mark, New Testament Commentary (Grand Rapids: Baker, 1975), 660.

[iii] Krummacher, The Suffering Savior, 384.

[iv] J.C. Ryle, Expository Thoughts on the Gospels: Matthew (New York: Robert Carter & Brothers, 1859),394.

[v] “Celebration of the Lord’s Supper, Form 2” in Liturgical Forms and Prayers of the United Reformed Churches in North America (Wellandport, On.: United Reformed Churches in North America, 2018), 46.

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William Boekestein

William Boekestein is the pastor of Immanuel Fellowship Church in Kalamazoo, Michigan. He has written several books and numerous articles. He and his wife, Amy, have four children.